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[nny]

Read a post about bisexuality which made me want to say something on the subject, but I've been unhelpfully rambly on the subject before and my brain's not coherent enough to add much to it except that I get pissed off, the assumptions people make. The way they instantly flip to 'greedy', the way they manage to conflate and insult both bi and poly people in one associative word. The truth is I probably get less sex than most people, definitely fancy not all that many; I couldn't tell you why I do fancy the ones that I do, because male genitalia freaks me out and the only thing uglier is toes, and that's on days when I can even get to thinking that far, when I'm not just weirded out by, like, ears, which doesn't even helpfully limit it to one gender.

(OMG they are so fucking weird, okay, what they hell, the way they just grow out of the side of your head like bizarre labial mushrooms, how can I sometimes find them so sexy?)

I'd declare myself asexual, with how weirded out I sometimes am by humanity, only I have a high sex drive; I'm perpetually horny but have yet to enjoy sex. Yet to have much, also. This is down to my oogy, about myself and everyone else, since I don't relax and don't understand those who want me to, with them.

So I'm really better off making no posts on the subject, because I'm a small ball of weird in the corner, I think, and will continue to huddle on my own here until there is someone whose complementary weirdnesses don't make them throw up on my own.

Comments

[perardua.livejournal.com]

I'd declare myself asexual, with how weirded out I sometimes am by humanity, only I have a high sex drive; I'm perpetually horny but have yet to enjoy sex. Yet to have much, also. This is down to my oogy, about myself and everyone else, since I don't relax and don't understand those who want me to, with them.

See, the majority of this is pretty much a description of me, so you're not on your own in that corner, at least.

[villainny.livejournal.com]

1) AWESOMEST ICON EVER OKAY
2) that's remarkably comforting to hear.

[wildestranger.livejournal.com]

People and their bits are weird. *huddles in own corner of weird body issues and asexuality* *sends hugs to your corner*

[villainny.livejournal.com]

OMFG THEY SO ARE.

[renshai.livejournal.com]

Can I come hang out in your corner? It's kind of lonely in my own "bi, but I'm shy and people are weird and I don't understand them, so I haven't dated since 8th grade" corner.

[villainny.livejournal.com]

Dude, that is also my corner!

*reaches over to hug you close*

[hestia-lacey.livejournal.com]

A lot of what you said rings true with me too. There are more people in your corner than you think :)

[forest-rose.livejournal.com]

Omg, you have taken this post straight from my brain, haven't you? This is exactly me. xxx

[hobbitblue.livejournal.com]

If you find male genitalia theat freaky, are you sure you're not a lesbian rather than bi? Mind you, I'm bi, was for ages sure I was a lesbian with a penchant for forest but given how much I love the cock these days (ahem) I've decided I'm defnitely bi, tending to find more men attractive. As in, gone from "fancy every women in the world plus maybe one man" to "fancy every woman in the world plus maybe four or five men, max.."

Their bits *are* weird though.. ::grin::

[ashen_key]

Can I join you in the corner? It sounds like fun - people who are like me! Because, so ridiculously high sex drive, and I am attracted to both guys and girls, but their actual bits *screws up face*. Not to mention the...not really having ever gone with anyone, and only one oddly sexual encounter on the couch. When I was drunk.

So, I think it's a GOOD corner.

[dramaturgca.livejournal.com]

I am also in the asexual but identify bi publicly corner and what you're saying rings true for me. Of course, now I can't stop staring at ears...

[klatubarada.livejournal.com]

u guys just made me feel like i wasnt the weird one rockin' in the corner anymore.! Thought it was just me being 'weird' and unlovable.

I like some men,i like some women -i think im bi-i still dunno -and my dates are zero!
my RL 'friends' all do the 'sex is actually a sport' but I.Just .Cant.
:(