nny | (no subject) (Reply)

I've made some changes, to my userinfo and layout, and I'm pretty sure I'll be sticking around for a while, at least. I've just come to the realisation that I've mostly been watching my life, recently, rather than participating in it, so there'll be some changes around here. I'm going to be checking my flist strictly once a day and posting that often too, barring unexpected happenings. I'm going to be re-reading only once every five books, if that, so I stop hiding in my comfort zone. I'm going to say yes to things more often, when people invite me out. I'm going to attempt to take the first step in contact more often, and keep up regularly with emails and the like. I'm going to take a hell of a lot more of an active role in maintaining friendships, because I've been lazy in that. I'm going to work out/write/call someone today, rather than some steadily retreating tomorrow.

I just have to work out how to have conversations again, with people that don't already know me, and find areas of common ground that don't involve owning a TV. My lack of knowledge of X Factor is apparently a hindrance.