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[nny]

Still ficcing merrily away. Distractions, however, are always welcomed.

*ponders*

Er... an easy meme. Ask me a question and I will answer honestly.

Unless the answer impacts on more than just myself, you know how it is. :)


Oh! And I forgot to say, you're welcome to go anonymous.

Comments

[schiarire.livejournal.com]

OK, I will try not to take this as Romance with a capital R like I did when Shati asked me.

Romance for me would be a relationship with someone where I wanted to see them and talk to them and just be around them. Whenever. All the time. Someone I liked talking to on the phone even. Someone I wouldn't be afraid to call or have a frumpy haven't-washed-in-three-or-four-days-DON'T-START-WITH-ME day with. Where I wouldn't worry about personal space too much. Or at all.

It's more a doing-for or doing-with than being-done-for with me.

[villainny.livejournal.com]

Hee, yes.

I think my idea of romance is making someone happy, and knowing how to make them happy. I like the closeness.

And it's my idea of friendship, too, which quite possibly says a lot about me.

[schiarire.livejournal.com]

Same. I don't have much of a sex drive. Usually. So that's not a huge deal or anything. I also pretty much, I'm sure, would treat a lover like a good friend. I don't really know where I draw the line. Fortunately I have not been propositioned by good friends in any likely scenario. Yet?

Where do YOU draw the line!

[villainny.livejournal.com]

I don't know, quite.

I've never had sex. I've been in love once. I think... I'm more willing to put up with a lot from someone I'm in love with. I'm kinda hoping I'll find someone one day who loves me back enough not to put me through a lot. *grins*

I love my friends. It's entirely possible I'd be happy without anything more than that, actually. When I feel connection it doesn't have to be a sexual thing, it can just be - yeah. I want to spend my life knowing this person. I want to see who they turn out to be. So maybe I don't need any more than that.

Just... I'd kinda like to be someone's bestest. I want to be priority, with someone. Like, they think of me first. When they see something new and amazing, I want to be the one they immediately think of sharing it with.

I guess love for me would be someone who told me they felt like that, and who I trusted enough to believe them.

[schiarire.livejournal.com]

I just want to not be afraid of being " -- and Ji" instead of just "Ji."

That is all I require. :)